Husband and Wife relationship in Islam

Husband and Wife relationship in Islam

The family begins with marriage. And the husband and wife relationship is a very important relationship between the people and the relationship between them The relationship is also very important. Through the husband and wife on earth It is through marriage that both men and women live in a single stream. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, "Know that you have authority over your wives. And your wives have the right over you."  [Al-Hadith]

 Allah has arranged for the increase of lineage in the world through husband and wife. And the relationship between husband and wife is an important part of human relationships and the relationship between them is also very important.

In another hadith addressed to men, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, "Be kind to your wives."

What will be the relationship or love of husband and wife; What will the marital relationship be like; His story is reflected in the family life of the Prophet (peace be upon him) himself. Which is a role model for the Muslim Ummah.

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to sit with his wives and discuss various events, stories and other things. Even each wife would take turns telling new stories to the Prophet. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) would rejoice and tell them stories.

 Hazrat Ayesha Radiyallahu Anha said, he used to smile, talk and sit with us in such a way, we did not think that he was a great messenger.

He never scolded or scolded his wives and never spoke sarcastically to them. On the contrary, he used to say interesting things that filled the mind with Maya-Mamata. The attitude of his words would fill the minds of the wives.

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to divert the attention of his wives from any words that contradicted his words. He loved wives very much. He would kiss them and sometimes rest his head on their thighs.

Hazrat Ayesha Radiyallahu Anha used to drink water with her mouth in the pot, Bishwanabi also used to drink water with her mouth in that place.

Hazrat Asya (may Allah be pleased with him) used to eat gosht from the place where the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to eat gosht.

This also proves how sweet the relationship with the wives was in the conjugal life of the Prophet.

Hazrat Ayesha Radiyallahu Anha said, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to enter the house with a very happy smile and greet him with a tender voice. He did not feel bad about the bed during the rest, he even lay on the bed the way he got it.

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) described the relationship between a good husband and wife and said, ‘The best of you is the one who treats his wife well.


In the light of Bishwanabi's conjugal life, it is understood that there is no alternative to the sweetness of husband and wife in living a happy and peaceful life. It is obligatory to follow and imitate the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) in order to make life happy and peaceful.

In order to make the Muslim Ummah happy and peaceful for each of them, it is necessary to paint the Muslim Ummah in the same way as the married life of the Prophet (peace be upon him). May Allah grant Muhammad in the Ummah the Tawfeeq to build a husband-wife relationship like his.

Husband and Wife relationship in Islam

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